Archive for April, 2008

3 Ways to Position Yourself When There’s Already a Big Guru In Your Topic

Wednesday, April 30th, 2008

I agreed with the comment posted on my last post by Steve Pohlit so I thought I’d hop over to his blog and comment.
Once I was there I decided I had more to say on this and wanted to share it with you.
My post on Steve’s blog:
You commented, “I know I have side stepped topics [...]

Why Is There So Much Confusion About Getting Your Message Out?

Tuesday, April 29th, 2008

There’s been a recurring theme to conversations and emails I’ve received the last few days and it’s keeping me awake at night because I can’t stop thinking about it. The worst part is that it’s an old theme that just doesn’t go away.
It doesn’t matter if it’s an experienced speaker making the transition from [...]

Personal Growth Quiz: Test Your Level of Self-Esteem

Monday, April 28th, 2008

A few days ago I wrote a comment on Kevin Nation’s Big Ticket Mastermind site. At the end of my comment on the topic of marketers ability to communicate their true value I said, “The other part of this that comes up over and over with my clients is their lack of belief in their [...]

What Are the People In Your Life Mirroring For You?

Thursday, April 24th, 2008

In the last month I have met a lot of new people, online and at live events.  I have also reconnected with some who I have not seen in years. It’s been a heartwarming experience all the way around.  I’m energized by all the wonderful people I’m connecting with.
I’ve been officially divorced for almost 3 [...]

How do you juggle all the different projects in your life?

Thursday, April 24th, 2008

Things are very busy for me right now.  How about you?  Spring is a time for cleaning out the old and welcoming in the new.
In the next couple weeks I have a lot going on.  I’m doing an event at my home, 2 book signings, my birthday and moving to Maui.  Did I mention I [...]

You Have 3 Seconds to Make a Good First Impression

Sunday, April 6th, 2008

Did you know your client is sub-consciously either raising or lowering their defenses based on their 3-second appraisal of who you are? What can you do to make sure their impression of you is of a professional who is open and caring? Instinctively they will decide if you are successful, confident, cocky or [...]

Build Self-Esteem: Your Key to Success Part 2

Saturday, April 5th, 2008

As I ended part 1 of this article on March 26th, I said that high self-esteem is a gift you can only give to yourself. It’s a very valuable gift.
I’ve had some time to reflect on how this is showing up in my life lately and I realize that I have very little negativity in [...]

The Day My Life Changed

Thursday, April 3rd, 2008

I don’t quite know where to begin this one, especially to keep it
short enough that you’ll read it. And I think this is important to read.
So here we go:
It was a day much like today, warm and sunny.  Just another
beautiful day like all the others in Cabo San Lucas. I’d been
living there for almost 6 [...]